Every year as we enter the month of Elul and begin our approach to Yom Kippur, I wrestle with these questions: Who might I have offended or hurt in this past year – or even further back in time? Am I ready to apologize, and make amends? Will they be ready to accept an apology if I offer it? Is there someone who has hurt or offended me in the past year – or further back in time? Would I forgive them if they apologized? Can I forgive them without receiving an apology? Am I obli